Tuesday, 22 May 2018

Why Do Women Find It Difficult To Leave Abusive Relationship But Easy To Leave Broke Men?

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You see this question ''Why do women find it difficult to leave abusive relationship but easy to leave broke men?'' was asked by a Nigerian singer Praiz.

We do not know exactly why the young singer asked this question,but we do know that he has observed around him and find the question to be very true.

He really wants to know! And we also want to know as well from you women!

Yes,why do you find it difficult to leave abusive relationship but very easy to leave ''broke men?''

A man whether a husband or a boyfriend would subject his woman to vigorous abusive relationship,beating her whenever he wants to let the steam off his emotion and all the woman would do is to cry and show her bulky eyes and say ''He beats me again'' and yet she would still resolve to continue in the relationship.

But however,when a woman finds herself in the hands of a gentle man who would never lay his hands on her for any reason but actually has the problem of being broke,the only thing the woman reasons to do is to leave the relationship! Whether the man in question is her husband or boyfriend,as long as he is broke,not having enough to cater for her physical needs,she is not comfortable to continue in that relationship!

Women why? Why do you prefer to be in abusive relationship where there is enough bouquet but leave a relationship that gives you peace of mind because your man is broke??

Are we saying that women prefer to be beaten and abused as long as there is money to being in peace where there is just vegetable to eat?

Women, why do you enjoy to suffer pains and eat eat large than manage scarcity and enjoy peace of mind???
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Why You Can't Be Friends With Your Ex!


This is a popular topic today, people want to know if it's possible to be friends with their ex or not. While some people see it as something impossible or not good enough to do, others see it as something normal. You that are reading this what do you think? Well let's continue we will find out more about this. 

When we go through this thing called ''break up'', we feel bad within ourselves especially when it has to do with someone we love and cherish so much. We tend to go back to that same person to try and get her back and continue but very likely it wont be possible anymore.




Here's something that you need to understand: Being friends with your ex is possible because it depends on the condition of your break up. Break up that occurs due to fights or cheating, is simply one I don't think you two can be friends again. Break ups that occurs peacefully maybe due to distance between you two, is likely to be reconciled.  But unfortunately,hardly does breakup occur peacefully, it always ends in quarrels and many other factors. Let's look at some main points.

Reasons Why You Shouldn't Be Friends With Your Ex 


1. It brings old or past  memories that may hurt you or both of you much later.
2. Stop dwelling in the past and move on, i know it hurts but you have to move on.
3. It might block you from falling in love in the future with the right person for you.
4. Remember you two became friends before you became lovers, so being an ex partner is almost the same as being an ex friend.

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Monday, 21 May 2018

''Celibacy Can't Get Me A Child And Husband.'' Linda Ikeji Gives More Explanation On Her Pregnancy!


In her Twitter account,one of the hottest female bloggers in Nigeria,the woman who once said she wouldn't need a man for anything in her life,Linda Ikeji has now finally got a man she never wanted after making a video where she was crying explaining how much she needed a man in her life.

We are not sure if the beautiful billionaire has a real man in her life now,but Linda Ikeji is now pregnant with a baby.

Even though we are not certain whether she is 43 or 36 years old,Linda who has been preaching celibacy to young girls for many years has fallen on the same trap!

She had s*x and she is now pregnant.

Below was the explanation she gives on why she although not yet married to any man in our best knowledge,but she is now pregnant:

“I preached celibacy to young girls because I feel that’s the right way to live until you meet someone very special that you love, who loves you and wants to be in a committed relationship with you. Passing body around and having multiple partners is not the way and I stand by it.”

“And I’ve lived by it. But then I turned 36 and I knew there was nothing else I wanted more than to be a mum & wife and celibacy wasn’t going to get me that! I even did a video talking about how much I wanted these two things and God has finally answered my prayers. Beyond blessed.”
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The Secrets Of A Successful Marriage!


Marriage has been with us from the beginning of mankind, a union between a man and a woman. Taking place in different forms and cultures, it's one of the most beautiful things mankind has ever enjoyed. Nearly every adult passes through this stage in his/her lifetime. People go into marriages for different reasons.For some people it's the time to have kids. And for some others it's for pleasure of having endless sex with their partners while for yet another, it's because they are lonely and need a companion.

Whatever may be the reason for going into marriage we want to look at the secrets of having a successful marriage. It's a topic you must take note of because statistics have shown that marriages have been crashing more this modern times than ever before. Let's look at the secrets of a successful marriage.

1. Attention: Your partner requires your attention in your marital life. I use this point first because the lack of it has caused problems in different homes and has even led to divorce and end of marriages. Give your partner attention always and you will be surprised at the happiness that will fill your marriage.

2. Reduce arguments: I use ''reduce'' because there must be arguments between two people in marriage. No marriage is smooth but a little amount of argument makes the road sweeter and better. When there's too much argument in your marriage it leads to unhappiness and loss of interest in your partner.


3. Surprise your partner: Making the heart of your partner to be overwhelmed with joy sometimes improves the relationship between you and your spouse. So many people out there love surprises, these surprises could be gifts, surprise vacation (paid trip), a wonderful and beautiful romantic dinner.

4. Gratitude: Being grateful for little things and even the slightest efforts from your partner could do a lot in his or her love for you. Don't overlook this step as it sends some amazing shocks down the spine of your spouse.

5. Don't be jealous: Jealousy could destroy the trust you have built together. Ladies and gentlemen,learn to trust your partners and don't be suspicious of every move they make, believe me it makes people uncomfortable when they are treated as such!!!


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Why Love Is So Painful And How To Move On!!


Love is sweet so it goes on the mouth of many, it's all about sacrifice, putting your loved one before you and loving without expecting anything in return. That's a good judgement, but nearly everything in life that has the positive sides have the negative sides also. Love is painful too, yes it's devastating, it hurts and might even lead to hate. Some people out there can't shade tears over anything, but certainly do so when they lose their loved ones to death or have a broken relationship.





Love hurts deeply and that is why love is so painful. It becomes especially painful when we don't get what we love! Yes whatever you love you would like to have it around all the time, but unfortunately life isn't perfect and so it turns to hurt us in one of the worst ways.

 Let's take this a bit to the side of relationships. We fall in love and want to offer everything to the one we love, our time, money and sometimes even ready to offer our lives to this special someone in our lives. Then our heart gets broken in the process. It happens to us from time to time and we begin to regret and feel the effects of the painful side of love. 

Please remember this however that when painful love has affected you, it's okay and learn to move on. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel!!!.

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I Love Her But She Doesn't Love Me, Should I Continue To Love Her?


This is one of the most difficult decisions to take: "To continue moving or to stop moving" .It's an important time of decision in a man's life . We all have this person in our life that takes our breath away, that makes us want to love for the rest of our life. We wish we can love this person forever, if they feel the same way too for us then we are in heaven but if they don't love or have feelings for us in return, it becomes the most painful part of our lives.

Read: Why relationship experts also get divorce?

The sad story starts this way: You do all you can to make her happy, to make her your queen, perhaps due to your consistent pressure on her, she decides to give you a little chance and then you feel on top of the world. You go ahead to broadcast the good news to your friends that you have the best woman in the world. As time goes by she still brings back that same attitude and treats you like she used to do. Here's the real truth: Never suffer for love;Don't be a second option for any lady out there because the worst treatment is coming that could make you miserable!

 Have you ever sat back and looked around? You would find out there are many that love and appreciate you more than she would ever do. Guys, stop wasting your love with someone who wouldn't blink an eye if you decide to let go. Learn to appreciate yourself and the value you have, don't be a slave to love!!!

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Sunday, 20 May 2018

''Federal Government Is Plotting To Assassinate Me''-Wike. See His Evidence!



At the 3rd anniversary thanksgiving of his administration yesterday at the Living Faith Church a.k.a. Winners at the D-line in Port harcourt,governor of Rivers state Nigeria,governor Nyesom Wike said in public that the APC federal government is plotting to assassinate him.

He said: “Intelligence report available to us as at this morning indicates that they are plotting to assassinate me in a crowd and claim it was accidental discharge.”

The governor of Rivers state Nyesom Wike said that he is determined not to be intimidated by the plot of APC federal government to assassinate him as he remains committed to the defense of democracy and River state at all cost.

Above all governor Wike said that the plot of federal government to assassinate him will surely fail as God would continue to defend him.

Furthermore he said:

“The level of conspiracy against Rivers State is unfortunate.  Instead of focusing on governance, they focus  on how to assassinate me or frame me up.”

Governor Wike claimed at the church yesterday that the APC federal government through the Inspector General of Police(IGP) plotted to plant millions of dollars and AK 47 at his residence in Abuja. This he noted when police south search warrant from an Abuja court.

When the Presidency heard about this report,the Special Adviser to President Mohammadu Buhari on Media and Publicity,Femi Adesina reacted to it and this was what he said:

“It is not in the Buhari administration’s character.''

He continued:

“Wike is judging others by his own standards. Rivers State has witnessed in recent times gruesome murders which the state has not been able to explain.”






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Saturday, 19 May 2018

Serena Williams Reveals Why She Walked Down The Aisle Alone Without Her Father. See Here.

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The American Tennis star,Serena Williams who got married to the father of her daughter Reddit co-founder Alexis Ohania on the day of her wedding walked down the aisle alone while her father was and is till very much alive.

Serena Williams didn't know that that would ever happen,that her father who was so much fund of her,her former long time coach could suddenly turned down the honor of his baby and last daughter of five
girls just an hour before her wedding.

Serena Williams reveals why her dad pulled out of walking her down aisle just an hour before wedding ceremony

According to Serena,her father's suit and kits were ready and just in one hour to her wedding, her father who was supposed to walk her down the aisle called her and said he was sorry,he couldn't watch her walk down the aisle. and that he won't be comfortable giving her away.

 "He was in New Orleans, he had a suit, and I know he was really excited.
"But then he wrote me and said, 'Serena, I don't want you to be mad at me, but I just can't walk you down the aisle. I'm not myself anymore. I'm just too nervous.'' 


Was Serena angry about the turn of event? This was the reply she gave her father:
 "Daddy, it's okay, if you don't want to come to the wedding at all, that's okay too. I'm not going to be upset with you about it, so I don't want you to be upset about it."

 Below are more things Serena said about her father and family:
If he doesn't want to be up there in front of a lot of people, I completely understand. Look, when we first came on the scene, there were a lot of people who didn't get him.
I don't think a lot of them wanted to get him. I don't think a lot of him could have anyway. Our family knows what we have.
We just want each other to be happy. That's what matters. I don't think anything could ever change that.''
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The Persons,The Marriage Of Prince Harry And Meghan Markle



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Photo: Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.

Below was Meghan Markle 12 years ago with her former spouse Trevor Engelson. She was then an actress and her then husband was her producer.

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Both Markle and Trevor dated for six years. They began dating in 2005 and wedded in 2011.

The marriage between Markle and her former husband Trevor was described as a blast. The then couple got married and nurtured their individual careers rather than their young marriage union. 
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Markle an actress landed her breakthrough role on suits  just before her wedding,and soon after her wedding,she left her husband in Los Angeles to Toronto for film making.

Distance relationship was one of those major reasons that shattered the marriage  between Markle and her former husband Trevor and so in 2013,they both finally got divorced.

A year after their divorce,Trevor has been trying one lady after another and currently he is with one nutritionist Tracey Kurland.

Three years after her divorce with Trevor,Markle met Prince Harry after a friend set them up on a blind date in 2016. That was the beginning of what built the relationship between these lovebirds Markle and Harry to their legal pronouncement as husband and wife yesterday,the 19th day of May 2018 at St. George's Chapel Windsor Castle witnessed by the audience of 600 and other millions watching earth wide.

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Look of love on Prince Harry and Meghan Markle

Meghan Markle who has now given up her acting career is 36 years old while her husband Prince Harry,a seasoned TV presenter and grandson to Queen Elizabeth II and son of Princess Diana is 33 years old.

Can't you see? The royalty doesn't count age of a woman as anything important both her love and commitment to the royal family.

The British royal family does not even care that Meghan Markjle was formerly married and divorced they saw a woman and wife material in her that her former husband didn't see and gave her pure royalty that she deserves at last!

Now something more interesting about royal wedding is the choice of their wedding gowns. Right from the beginning,it has been all cover-up for the brides. No see-through dresses are allowed. Take a look below:

#RoyalWedding: Princess Diana VS Kate Middleton VS Meghan Markle... which gown is your favourite?

And you know something about this lady called Markle? Smile is truly her signature! She wears it like she wears her clothes in and out,everywhere she goes.

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That was Prince Harry's ex-girlfriend Chelsy Davy at the wedding reception of her former boyfriend Prince Harry.

She doesn't seem to be happy that she lost this royal opportunity to someone else yes,but don't worry she might have someone better than Harry at the end of the day. Markle is a living testimony!

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle now husband and wife since 19th of May 2018 and still counting! Yes,we really wish them well as they appear in their stunning look from now until death do them apart!!!

Meghan Markle is stunning in her second dress as she and her new husband head to their wedding reception (photos)
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See What Happened To Governor Who Falls Into River While Commissioning Newly Built Bridge


What happened in Ogembo,a small farming town in Kenya yesterday was a disaster which almost claimed the life of a governor.

The people of Ogembo were shocked as the governor of Machakos County Alfred Mutua,two journalists and some government officials plunged into a river as they were standing on a newly constructed footbridge the governor came to declare open yesterday Friday.


According to The Star report,governor Alfred Mutua almost got drowned in the river before he was rescued and taken to hospital in Kisii County in an ambulance.

He plunged into the river when the bridge he came to declare open collapsed while he was taking selfie.

But wait,did the constructor of the bridge not test and certify the bridge before he said he had complete his job? Did he not walk and run through it to be sure the bridge was strong and safe to be used?

We can't say for sure how the bridge which was said to have been firmly constructed and ready to be declared open by the governor of County collapsed just the moment the governor and his entourage walked in to declare it open!

Yes,not only did the governor get shaken,he fell into the river uncontrollably.

Thanks to goodness however. The governor took it in good fate and his head and that of other victims were not taken by the incidence. They all came out safe.

Below was the governor's remark after the incidence: 

“I have been baptised by River Gucha and now I must build a house in Gucha,” Reported by radio citizen.

“The bridge caved in after a crowd of those who accompanied us joined us.''

The collapsed bridge was constructed by the ministry of public works as part of the Economic Stimulus project under the constituency of  development fund.

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If A Man Loves His Wife So Much Can He Still Cheat On Her?

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We asked this question because,we realized that more than 80% of married men cheat on their wives. There is no doubt however that over 90% of men on earth marry women they truly love. Then how come,men still cheat on their wives? 

To get the answer to this question: ''If a man loves his wife so much can he still cheat on her?'' We need to know what keeps a man a way from sexual immorality.

One of the things that can make a man to control his urge when the feelings to have sex with a woman he is not married to is self control. For self control to be effective,for it to work,a man must have discipline. Yes discipline! And it goes with great determination!

Now can you see that whether a man loves his wife or not,if he has self control waged with discipline and determination not to give in to urge to have sex illegally,he would make it?

This shows that love or no love has nothing to do with a man cheating on his woman!

If a man loves his wife and lacks self control,he would cheat on her whenever he has the urge to do so wife another woman.

Self respect has no place in the factors that can help a man resist sex outside his marriage. This is because,when a man develops feelings or urge to have sex with any woman,he turns crazy and becomes unusual of himself.

At this point,he doesn't know what is self respect. Even a titled Chief in African land would shamelessly give in to sex with a little girl old enough to be his daughter,a widow or even anyone else not to be reckoned with.

You know how much the former American President Bill Clinton loves his supportive and visionary  wife  Hilary. Yes,you also know his story with Monica Lewinsky right?

And you reading this if you are married and had cheated on your wife, would you say you did so because you suddenly lost your feelings,interest or love her? Never!!

If a man loves his wife so much,can he still cheat on her?  

If a man lacks self control,if he is not disciplined,if he is not determined to resist sexual immorality,no matter how much he loves his wife,he would give in to the urge to have sex outside his marriage relationship and cheats on his wife over and over again!!!


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Friday, 18 May 2018

Have You Seen The Female Bankers Who Fought Dirty In Banking Hall? See More Reasons For The Fight!


But some men are simply bad,ugly and wicked! How could he sleep with two female bankers of the same bank and eventually opened a fat account with just one of them?

But even as that? Is it just enough for these ladies to fight this dirty with each other in the banking hall?  Did they not say they are working as a team? So why should they quarrel and even fight each other because a man,their client opened an account with one of them? 


Well,according to the story,one of the female bankers in one of the micro finance banks in Nigeria after sleeping with her client who requested she must do so before he opens an account with her bank introduces one of her closest colleagues to this client.

Behind her,that her colleague went to the same man to persuade him open the account with her instead of the formal lady. 

The man requested the same thing, her ''body'' and she gave it to him big time!

On finding out that the lady she introduced to her client went behind her and made her client open account with her got the formal lady crazy and of course she acted crazily:


Can't you see? They are not mature! 

It is very simple! When you find out that one of your colleagues betrays you in this manner,would the right thing to do not to report to the head of marking or your department?

Even if the department doesn't not act justly,wait for karma to do the job itself and it will.

Now,they have shown their more stupidity in a banking hall,disgraced and shamed the banking industry they are sure they would lose their jobs. And after that,would the money not still remain with the bank? And who is losing? The bank? Their client? The ladies?

Ladies use your sense!!!
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Have You Seen The Female Bankers Who Fought Dirty In Banking Hall? See More Reasons For The Fight!


But some men are simply bad,ugly and wicked! How could he sleep with two female bankers of the same bank and eventually opened a fat account with just one of them?

But even as that? Is it just enough for these ladies to fight this dirty with each other in the banking hall?  Did they not say they are working as a team? So why should they quarrel and even fight each other because a man,their client opened an account with one of them? 


Well,according to the story,one of the female bankers in one of the micro finance banks in Nigeria after sleeping with her client who requested she must do so before he opens an account with her bank introduces one of her closest colleagues to this client.

Behind her,that her colleague went to the same man to persuade him open the account with her instead of the formal lady. 

The man requested the same thing, her ''body'' and she gave it to him big time!

On finding out that the lady she introduced to her client went behind her and made her client open account with her got the formal lady crazy and of course she acted crazily:


Can't you see? They are not mature! 

It is very simple! When you find out that one of your colleagues betrays you in this manner,would the right thing to do not to report to the head of marking or your department?

Even if the department doesn't not act justly,wait for karma to do the job itself and it will.

Now,they have shown their more stupidity in a banking hall,disgraced and shamed the banking industry they are sure they would lose their jobs. And after that,would the money not still remain with the bank? And who is losing? The bank? Their client? The ladies?

Ladies use your sense!!!
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Adaora Uko Feeds The Street And Raises Fund For Cancer Patients Rather Than Celebrating Birthday

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Adaora Ukoh,is beautiful Nigerian actress who hails from Nimo in Njikoka local government area of Anambra state.  For the first time of celebrating her birthday in life,she decided to give attention to needy on the street and patients suffering from one form of cancer or the other.

Born in early 80's and being the first of 6 children,Adaora Ukoh could be described as a complete woman not because she is proudly over-size ,a wife and mother,but because is has feelings for humans going through pains in life and would not rest until she puts smiles on their faces.

For the first time to celebrate her birthday,Adaora went feeding beggars on the street of Aja in Lagos state and launching cancer awareness foundation. When asked what motivated her to do so,she said:

The basic reason I formally launched the NGO on my birthday is because I got involved in raising funds for a 25-year-old breast cancer patient who happens to be my house help. The young lady in question who has been working with me for some months was at a stage three breast cancer without my knowledge. When I eventually found out, it drained me emotionally and at that point I knew I had to do something about it, which prompted my floating the foundation instead of having a birthday party celebration. My team came up with the idea of feeding the less-privileged on the streets.

When asked however what is the most interesting part of celebrating her birthday,she also said:

I kept having this feeling that I should reach out and do more so on my birthday. God put it in my heart to kick-start a foundation to basically do two things; help women get early detection for any type of cancer that basically attacks the women folks; whether breast cancer, ovarian cancer, or cervical cancer. As we all know, early detection is the best cure. Jennifer, the young lady that was the idea behind the foundation, never got screened or tested. Not even when the ailment had started, and this was due to a lack of funds. I can bet Jennifer never knew what she had until it deteriorated. So in that spirit of reaching out, I decided the best way to celebrate my birthday for the first time was to cook, share my cakes, drinks, and give some supplies to a hundred beggars on the street in an initiative called #feedthestreet.
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Nigerian Senate President,Kwara State Governor Implicated In Many Murder Cases.See Details Here



Last week,two suspected killers were paraded by Kwara state police command,Ilori. In their confession,they revealed that Nigerian senate president Senator Bukola Saraki and Kwara state governor Mr. Abdulfattah Ahmed were two of the men who ordered them to kill many in Nigeria and abroad.

From what Saharan Reporters gathered,the two killers also confessed that they have been on payroll of the Kwara state government and on the Mandate Office of  senator Saraki .

According to a police source to Saharan Reporters,they have retrieved a confirmation from bank statement showing that the killers receive salary on a monthly basis from senator Saraki and the government of Kwara state.

The suspects also told the police that senator Saraki also gave them a Toyota Corolla car a few months ago to secure their loyalty ahead of 2019 elections.

On the list of those marked for execution before 2019 elections are Mustapha Kayode,Yinka Aluko,and one Ogunlowo.

It was also gathered that following the confession of the suspects,senator Saraki and governor Ahmed have attempted to pressure Kwara state police commissioner Mr, Aminu Pai Saleh using Director of  Public Prosecution DPP.

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