Sunday, 15 July 2018

Are You Really In A Serious Relationship? Do Not Do This!

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Are You Really In A Serious Relationship? Do Not Do This!

These days,the way everyone is taking relationship has made it so difficult to differentiate it with non relationship. S*x is widely spread,and different names have been used to coat and color relationships. Whatever it is,you are the only one that knows whether you are truly in a relationship or not!

Are you really in a relationship? Do not do this! What? Relax,you will soon find out!!

Lately,a young woman reported to police that her boyfriend defrauded her of 2.9 million naira and used it to marry another lady. During the investigation of how the young man,the so called suitor of the young woman defrauded her of 2.9 million naira,the police found out that it was his girlfriend, the young woman that gave him the money but in the name that he wants to execute a contract  which would give him huge money in return. Unknowing to her that it was false and a way to defraud her,she did give him the money since she believed they were in a serious relationship.

To cut the long story short,the young man having collected the money,ran away to a far distance and disconnected every form of communication with the young lady and married the woman he wanted.

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My dear lady,are you really in a serious relationship? Do not do this. Do not ever think you are in a serious relationship until your boyfriend does something serious to commit you in his hand. Do you have a baby with him which both families are aware of? Has he done proper introduction and settled your bride price with your family? In that case,he is already your husband and you could be sure you are in a serious relationship with him if your answer is a big yes!

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I mean,how could you believe that a man would marry you because he comes to your house and eats your food? Who told you that an intimate relationship is when you are very close to a certain man to the point that he sleeps in the same bed with you?

My dear lady,if this is what your relationship is,do not commit your financial strength with to him. Do not even borrow to him if he says he would refund later. There is every likelihood that he is collecting the money to pay the bride price of his lady and marry her why you are deceived he would use the money for some business .

Read this please: Your Boyfriend Might Be Getting Married But You Do Not Know!

Are you really in a serious relationship? To what extent is your relationship that you are beginning to call it a serious relationship? Whatever it is,do not ever say or feel that you are in a serious relationship if your man is not ready to take you to isle. Even if your relationship is as old as Methuselah he is still your boyfriend on a platform level.

Let him go out,yes let him leave you and go look for his fortune. He has to go and make money to take care of his responsibilities and find his feet as man!

No responsible man would sit and eat the food provided by his girlfriend if he is thinking of marrying her! The common action to take is to go make himself a man and then come for his woman before another man takes her away from him and not the other way round.

Are you really in a serious relationship? Do not this!! I am sure and very sure you know the don'ts!


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Friday, 13 July 2018

What Is Bad In Dating A Married Man?

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What Is Bad In Dating A Married Man?

Today,a lot of young and old ladies are dating married men either knowingly or unknowing to them.Even when being told or when they eventually find out that the men they are entrusting their hearts to are already married,they seem not to be bothered by it and show ''I don't care'' attitude. Why? Is anything wrong with dating married men? What is wrong in dating married men ?

First,to give us a sound and reasonable answer,let us see what dating is! Simply put,dating is a stage of romantic relationships in which two people,a man and a woman socially meet with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship or marriage.

Since dating involves romance and intention for an intimate relationship or marriage,does it not look to you as an unwholesome practice when the man in the party is already married? And now you are asking: What is bad in dating a married man?

A married man has a wife,he already has a family! What need would you be filling in his household when you eventually come in?  Second wife right? But the one that would be fulfilling the s*xual responsibility for the man of the house and yes,the woman that would take care of the responsibility of his old age for the family when the time comes! What is bad in dating a married man?

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Here are the results of dating a married man!

By dating a married man,you are sharing not only your emotion with someone not belonging to you,but you are also romancing a husband of another woman.

Sharing your emotion and satisfying the sexual urge of a man who rightly belongs to another woman is devaluing yourself,saying you worth nothing than a secondary place in the life of any man.

From dating a married man,you would become a second woman at home.

From becoming a second wife at home,you have put asunder what God has yoked together and says let no one put apart.

By putting apart a family,you have succeeded in tearing a family tie that bond that bind a man and his wife and children making them fall apart!

Are you like still seriously asking what is bad in dating a married man?

My dear lady why? Just take your seat and consider the results of dating a married man and you will see that the results are negative! There is no positivity or goodness in it.

Some men are just pitfalls. Their lives are danger zones and traps set to destroy women's lives. Only those who think they are master planners boldly enter marriages with married men. They have their calculations and think they have their ways to succeed.

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But what is even good about dating a married man in the first place? If it is that you are looking for a very mature man for marriage,there are many single mature men out there for you. Why go with someone who is already married?  Okay,if your problem is loneliness and you just want any man to keep up with please read this article to help the situation: What To Do When You Are Lonely!

My dear lady dating or marrying a married man is purely a blind choice that even some traditions are no longer in support of. To get more opinions on the issues of dating married men,please read one of them in our article: Is It Okay To Date A Married Man?

Remember,in everything we do,in whatever thing we do under the sun,there are consequences. Dating a married man or getting married to a married man has its own consequences. Some of the consequences of marrying or dating a married man is found in this article: Your Boyfriend Might Be Getting Married But You Do Not Know!

Be good to yourself!!!

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Is It Okay To Date A Married Man?

Is It Okay To Date A Married Man?

Time flies as the days go by and we come to a time in our life when we are faced with some big decisions to make. Love no doubt is strong and very powerful and it could also make us make some irrational decisions that we may not deem fit to make on ordinary day when we are not in love. However,we should be careful when we take on a journey of love. The question we are about to look into is a very important big question we all have to consider carefully as growing girls and ladies: Is It Okay To Date a Married Man? I will answer this question as we progress. 

To date someone simply means to go out with someone one is attracted to. Sharing some romantic attachment becomes a common culture and norms of those dating.  More love and feelings begin to generate for these loved ones we are already emotionally attached to as close and warm relationship is being built! 

Definitely we have feelings for these ones, although some people go into relationships because of some gain they expect to get from it,but the main reason people in real relationship date someone is because they have and share romantic feelings with that them. But now, that person you are about to date is married, which means he's legally attached to someone he calls his wife and probably they already have kids together. Your crush who has turned to your partner could be this sweet loving married man who calls you at every hour, appreciates you, treats you well, make your heart beat fast, help you financially and make you feel on top of the world, but the question remains does he love you while still married? You can read our article that could help you: Do I Love Her Or Am I Just Lonely? 

 Our question: Is it okay to date a married man? Come to think of it: A man that is married owes an obligation to his wife and family, to love and cherish them and that same man claims to love you. Don't you think something is wrong with him he has to fix? Does the fact that he could not take up his responsibility as a husband to his wife not make you see that he is an irresponsible man? Let's move away a bit from his side and check your side as a lady and get some vital points to consider. 

As a lady who could only be attracted by a married man,a man who has already given his life and commitment to another woman not you,do you not feel the following:

1. Low self-esteem?: Having a low self-esteem is something that could happen to us due to the decisions we make. When you are playing the second position in a man's life while another woman is on top is bad and could lead to low self-esteem. You might be enjoying some financial aids and all that but remember that it is just peanuts compared with what his wife enjoys. Yes,the first place in that man's life,and everyone recognizes it! And you,you are content and just okay to accept a secondary place in the heart of man rather than being a queen in your own house! Is it okay to date a married man?

2. '''Am not in for money but for love'' say some ladies who try to justify their reason for dating married men.Have you not heard that men can have sex without being in love with a woman but a woman can not have sex without some emotional attachment to the man? Can't you see you are being used up by that man? Any married man who leaves his wife and come to you is not truly coming to you in the name of marriage but to have you satisfy his s*xual urge. Yes,he could after all marry you to become his s*x worker,but deep inside him,he knows his wife! The other woman he has given his everything to and not you! So my lady,is is okay to date a married man? 

3. He will leave someday: Have it in mind he's going to leave someday, he might claim to be in love with you but the main reason could be that he's having issues with his wife and is using you to heal himself from frustrations and heart break. This again should be an eye opener for you. He is married! He has given it all to his wife! Your stay with him is very much temporal and the earlier you know this the better it is for you.

4. What goes around comes around Remember? Definitely you must have heard that quote and most times it works. This action you are taking or about to take could come back to hit you back when you want to finally want to settle down with the man of your dreams. 

The point is this: Even if your intention is not to marry a married man but is on deceit to sap him,when you eventually marry your own husband,there is every likelihood that not just one but many women will run after him and sap him dry even before your eyes.

Morals: Don't make yourself cheap to be the second option of a man while there are so many single men out there that can treat you in a special way. You might have heard some heart breaks with single men in the past but don't make a bad decision because of your past. Also read the article: Does True Love Exist Only in Movies? and stay away from married men!!!


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Thursday, 12 July 2018

Your Boyfriend Might Be Getting Married But You Do Not Know!

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Now,have you ever wondered why so many ladies say they are engaged to one man or another and they continue to remain in that state like indefinite? Just meet any girl for a relationship or to find out if she is still single and searching and it would amaze you what they would all say. ''I am already engaged to someone'' and all sort of that.

A year,two year,three four five years they are still there while other younger ones on their sides are taken to alter for proper marriage! Your boyfriend might be married but you do not know!

I ran onto a lady who was crying and lamenting that her boyfriend she was dating was getting married to someone else and she never knew! According to her,four days before she saw her boyfriend's wedding picture on his Facebook page posing romantically with his wife,the young man was all with her in bed,telling her he could do nothing without her,that she is the love of his life and all of that. Little did this lady know that it was all deceit! Yes,your boyfriend might be getting married but you do not know!

Dear lady,how would you know if your boyfriend who has probably proposed to you for marriage is not actually getting married to someone else?

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TIPS HE IS GETTING MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE WHILE YOU BOTH ARE IN RELATIONSHIP


  • How often does your boyfriend hurt you and apologize to you? This question is very very important! Apology is not a guarantee that he loves you. Studies and research have proven that boyfriends who always apologize to their girlfriends do so on ulterior motives.He doesn't want to let you go not because he loves you,but because you do him a lot good by keeping him warm! Your boyfriend might be getting married but you do not know!
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My dear lady,beware of  any boyfriend of yours who often offend or hurt you. He knows that with just that apology,he would have you again.


  • Secondly,between you and your boyfriend who shows he needs the other more importantly? Who calls more frequently than the other? Does he call you more and only when he needs you to be in bed or around with him? Check check check! If the answer to the last question in the second point is yes,your boyfriend might be getting married but you do not know!


Some men are like hungry lions,looking for some women to devour. Ladies,use your senses!!

That he takes you out every evening for dinner is not a sign he is your future husband. That he calls you whenever he has urge for sex doesn't mean you are the right woman for him. If his girl he has somewhere to marry tells him there would be no sex until their wedding night he could be using you to satisfy his urgent need for s*x. Do not be deceived!

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  • what is your relationship with his family members? How many of them has he introduced to you? How many times have they called to check on you? Has he ever told you that his mother or sister asked after you?  If your answers to these questions are negative,then my lady,your boyfriend might be getting married to someone else but you do not know!


When your relationship is for marriage,you would see the difference. You would know it and you would see it. This is because,a serious relationship that points to marriage is not just between you and your boyfriend. It extend to the knowledge of his and your family members. Anything other than this is a relationship on a platform!

Read here: What To Do When You Are Lonely!

Serious commitment such as telling you his personal goals and plans,revealing to you some inside stories and issues in his family to make you feel belonging to them and get acquainted with them is a great evidence he is not just a boyfriend but a husband to be. If these points are absent in your relationship,my dear girlfriend,your boyfriend might be getting married but you do not know! 

There are signs for everything we all want to know in life. The problem is the inability or unwillingness to read the signs.

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If you are ready for marriage and you are already dating, then sit up and show some maturity. If he has not done it right by introducing you to his family,if you still feel empty in knowing about his family background,culture and value,tell him how much you need to know them. If he is not willing to you,don't expect me to tell you my dear that he has someone else for real and that your boyfriend might be getting married but you do not know!!!
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Wednesday, 11 July 2018

What To Do When You Are Lonely!


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What To Do When You Are Lonely!

Loneliness,the feeling of being alone in emptiness when one should be with a partner is like a sharp knife that pierces though the marrow of the bones. It is not only painful to deal with,it also makes one depreciate in heart and mind!

Anyone could fall a victim of being lonely.  A married man who loses wife could be lonely even when he is a man! A young girl in her teen could also feel lonely when she has a disappointing boyfriend. An elderly who does not have a helper or loved ones around could also be lonely just like children without helper could be sometimes!

However,some experts say that the good news is that loneliness is nice sometimes when you need a quiet time to think about things and also rest from stress. ''Life could be hard and make us feel bad so we need rest. This is where loneliness could help you a lot and it also brings some inspiration sometimes.'' But I highly disagree with them! Rather,I say to this school of thought that being alone most times,is good for reflection! Considering the good part, we will also consider the disadvantage and how to avoid this slowly deadly thing. Let's look at the bad side of loneliness!

NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF LONELINESS

1. Bad Thoughts: You would agree with me that loneliness brings bad or evil thoughts sometimes. It's important to note that people tend to think about irrelevant things when they are alone and this makes them take actions if they are not careful with such thoughts.

2. Depression: This can also take place when you are too lonely and make you do things you don't ever want to do. At times suicidal thoughts may occur in the process.


WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE LONELY

Loneliness makes us do a lot of unimaginable things. Even in the Christian Bible God saw that it is not good for man to be alone so He created a help mate for him and that's what we know today as wife. How much more loneliness! I am going to list some points that you can apply when you are lonely:

1. Create a hobby: Hobbies such as visiting the gym, playing table tennis, reading books, visiting the library and many other things help to remove loneliness. Do not keep an ideal mind when you are lonely!

2. Take a trip: On the course of your career you will know the times when you will be lonely and need to have an action plan that will take care of that time. Another important action plan is taking a trip to visit your family members, friends and relatives. Yes,this is great in fighting loneliness.

Read here:Why Do You Really Want That Ex Back?

3. Take a vacation: Vacations help a lot in easing off and winning the war of loneliness.It deals strongly with stress and makes us relax a bit. Pick a country you will want to visit and check the amount of money needed to achieve that. If you can't achieve it,at least change environment somewhere you can reach!

The spirit of loneliness does not have advantage. It is all full of disadvantages,aiming to weigh someone down,and cause big depression.

When you are alone and feel lonely,apply all necessary measures to fight loneliness by keeping real busy!!! 




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Tuesday, 10 July 2018

The Kind Of Ex You Should Never Let Go!

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You and your ex!

In our previous article:''Why Do You Really Want That Ex Back?'',we could see there are actually some ex that do not worth the efforts of anyone who tries to make up for a second chance. The right thing for anyone,a victim of the experience is to let go of anyone who says or implies your place in his life is not important is to simply let go! Don't beg,don't even try to prove that your place is important in the life of anyone who thinks otherwise because at the end of the day,you would achieve no positive result but cause more harm than good.


However,there are actually guys,the kind of ex you should never let go! This kind of ex is direct opposite to the kind of ex you should never want back.

There was a young man who was in love with a young lady for reasons best known by him. No matter what the young lady did to him,he would simply over look the matter and make up with her. This he did for more than five years of there friendship because at the time they began this journey of love,the young lady was still in secondary school while the young man in question just got admissions in one of the Universities in Nigeria. Theirs was a distance relationship,out of sight but not out of mind.

The spirit of love grew and strong feelings generated between these two lovers over the years.Soon the friendship lasted for 10 years but although the young man never changes his mind about the young lady,but he found it very difficult to stand on his feet as a man. He could not secure employment good enough to put food at his table and bring him or anyone else in his heart comfort.

Like the adage says: ''A man who has not found himself will desert any woman that comes his way'' so did he do to the young lady that had kept herself for him for many years. The kind of ex you should never let go!

He left,abandoned and denied his girl he so much love for pursuit of employment,money and comfort! And I am sure that if he meets his target today,he will go look for his girl and marry her. I know this guy very well,and the lady is mine!

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My dear lady,if you have this kind of ex you should never let go! Help him to even secure this job that will make him find his place and feet as a man and watch his next move. If what I am thinking is right,he will make your dream as his wife come true!

Another kind of ex you should never let go is one that feels intimidated by your charisma. The charisma could be that your family is influential and his is on a very low class. If his point is that he wants to go make a little wave to shape himself in a way that could make him appear worthy and presentable to your family and leaves,please let him go but never say goodbye! The kind of ex you should never let go!

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Somehow,you will always  find out if he is still in the mood with you even though you both are no more together. If you find out his heart still lingers to yours,never let him go until you see the situation has become unbearable and out of control.

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The truth again is that when a man has not found himself,he will desert any woman that comes his way including his future wife! If a man has not made himself a man,he can never make any woman his wife!

It is only reasonable men however that want to make their homes comfortable and conducive for whoever would become their wives. They are not goal diggers. They are not sorts of lazy people looking for already made women to house,feed and cloth them. They are real men,who cannot settle for less! Yes,the kind of ex you should never let go!!!

Read Here: Which Of These Men Would You Rather Marry?


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Monday, 9 July 2018

Why Do You Really Want That Ex Back?

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You and your ex!

Yes,Why do you really want that ex back? Is it because you have committed so much in the relationship and you couldn't let it go? Is it because of the much you have shared with him you and feel you could not forget? Why do you want that ex back?

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He said he is no longer interested in being in a relationship with you after all you have shared together. He doesn't feel you are marriageable but he continued to use up your time and resources until now he's sapped you and has said goodbye. My dear lady,why do you really want that ex back?

Obviously he doesn't love you any much,otherwise,nothing would have separated you from him. He would have fought and protected you from anything that wanted to break up your relationship with him if he really loved you. But here he is,gone far away from you! Why do you really want that ex back?

You love a man but he does not love you any inch. You sacrifice your time,energy and resources and he still made you feel not important. Aren't you crazy by chasing after a wind you can never hold? My dear lady,go and read your books to see the pages where it is written ''One cannot own everything one touches.Sometimes one owns,and sometimes one let it go.''

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Yes,let go of anything that tells you you have no value. Let go of anything that says you are of no importance. Anything that devalues your worth should be let go my dear lady! Why do you really want that ex back?

Many times,our ladies who have been abandoned by their ex embark on journey to bring back their ex and at the end of the day they wished they never tried it at all. Yes,it is because,they did not know that one does not own everything that one touches!

A mother once advised her daughter who wanted to marry her boyfriend by all means,a man who was not willing to do same with her that if she is not ready to pamper a man,to appeal to him and live to beg him in the rest of her life in marriage with him,she should not even start it in the first place.

If you beg a man to marry you,if you push or force your boyfriend to marry you,be ready to maintain the routine if you want the man to continue in the marriage with you! Then I ask: How long can one live to please a man? How long could you beg a man to be with you?  My dear lady,do not start a journey you cannot finish! Why do you really want that ex back?

Read here:Which Of These Men Would You Rather Marry?

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It is very simple! Men are like babies and that is true. You could make them fall to your wishes through their stomach especially when they are hungry materially. Any hopeless man could easily be trapped in the roof of wealthy woman. Any frustrated man can easily be wrapped in the arms of a woman. But at the end of the day,what does a woman get by hooking just a man to marry her with her own money? What is the joy of a relationship such as this? My dear lady,do not force things to be which do not match!

Read here:When Love Becomes An Addiction - A Must Read!

When your boyfriend says it is over,let him be! If it is made to be,if it will be,he will definitely come back to you before it is too late.Then,you will enjoy a marriage which is founded on love and interest!!!






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Friday, 6 July 2018

Should I Tell My Fiancee I am No Longer A Virgin?

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Should I Tell My Fiancee I am No Longer A Virgin?

The question is not: ''Should I tell my fiancee I am not a virgin?'' It is rather: ''Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin?

This means that previously,you have already told your fiancee that you were a virgin and probably,it was true you were. But now,the situation is no longer the same.

So what happened? How did it happen? How did you lose your virginity to someone else order than to your fiancee?

If you were not a virgin when you met your guy and he asked you if you were,there are no two ways about it. The straight and right answer should be simple NO! Yes,after all,you never knew him from Adams and he didn't know what your stories have been or what you've been through in life. The least one could expect from someone he never knew from Adams is perfection. But however,if your fiancee has always known you before being in a serious relationship with you and he asked you the first time when you are beginning if you are a virgin and you said yes,only for you to misbehave and give in to having sex with someone else,it would be very difficult and risky to tell him you are no longer a virgin he hopes to marry.

How would you start? What would you tell him? Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin?

This is very difficult I must tell you. It is so so difficult because you misbehaved.You cheated. You were not faithful to him!

The only thing that could save you in this situation is if you were raped. In that case,it was a situation beyond your control. It could happen to anyone.

I mean,how would you explain the situation where you got lose and opened your legs for one sort of man when you are already having a fiancee?

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Read more: When He Loves You But His Parent Says No To Marriage,This Is What You Should Do!

This is someone tantamount to being your husband. Yes,fiancee,someone you said yes to that you would marry and spend the rest of your life with! He is already seeing you as his wife and you feel the same way too!

Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin?

Well,because this is very difficult to say,some ladies pretend and lie to their fiancee that they are still virgins when they know they are not. They fear that telling them the truth would make them lose interest in them and call off any marriage with them in mind. But this is true! Yes,it could happen!

What if one sincerely tells her fiancee that she is no longer a virgin? Well,this is no doubt disappointing but the courage and sincerity will pay well .

The truth is that no man on hearing this would quickly call off marriage he has in mind with a lady that is not afraid to tell him the truth. This is evidence of trust! Trust keeps relationship healthy,trust keeps marriage alive!

Another truth is that even though you messed up,the fact that you sincerely told your fiancee the truth means you respect him. You've also proven that you are not proud of your action.

Having sex outside relationship is stupidity and badness. Sometimes,it is as a result of mistake or something one could not control at the moment.

Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin? Yes, tell him! Tell him and be free of guilty conscience. Tell him because you owe him an explanation and apology for not being faithful to him! If he loves you enough to marry you and have you as his woman,he would respect you as well and still go on with you! That is love! And the good book the Bible says that love covers multitude of sin! By telling your fiancee the truth,you are giving yourself the opportunity to see if he really loves you as he claims.

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If he leaves you because you told him the truth,then he never loved you enough to make you his woman. Yes,he will still leave you tomorrow when you fail to impress him or do it right as he expects.

But you know what? The worse of it all is telling lies! If you tell your fiancee lies about yourself,he will find out immediately after your wedding with him. And the worst is that he will never believe you again for eternity as long as you continue to be his wife.

Trust is everything in marriage. If you want to enjoy the peace and joy that marriage brings,let bare your hands! 

My dear lady,allow your fiancee to take you just the way you are! If you allow him,he will love and cherish the woman he has without wishing he has someone else!!!

Always remember,whatever lies put together,truth will put asunder!!! 
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Should I Tell My Fiancee I am No Longer A Virgin?

The question is not: ''Should I tell my fiancee I am not a virgin?'' It is rather: ''Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin?

This means that previously,you have already told your fiancee that you were a virgin and probably,it was true you were. But now,the situation is no longer the same.

So what happened? How did it happen? How did you lose your virginity to someone else order than to your fiancee?

If you were not a virgin when you met your guy and he asked you if you were,there are no two ways about it. The straight and right answer should be simple NO! Yes,after all,you never knew him from Adams and he didn't know what your stories have been or what you've been through in life. The least one could expect from someone he never knew from Adams is perfection. But however,if your fiancee has always known you before being in a serious relationship with you and he asked you the first time when you are beginning if you are a virgin and you said yes,only for you to misbehave and give in to having sex with someone else,it would be very difficult and risky to tell him you are no longer a virgin he hopes to marry.

How would you start? What would you tell him? Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin?

This is very difficult I must tell you. It is so so difficult because you misbehaved.You cheated. You were not faithful to him!

The only thing that could save you in this situation is if you were raped. In that case,it was a situation beyond your control. It could happen to anyone.

I mean,how would you explain the situation where you got lose and opened your legs for one sort of man when you are already having a fiancee?

This is someone tantamount to being your husband. Yes,fiancee,someone you said yes to that you would marry and spend the rest of your life with! He is already seeing you as his wife and you feel the same way too!

Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin?

Well,because this is very difficult to say,some ladies pretend and lie to their fiancee that they are still virgins when they know they are not. They fear that telling them the truth would make them lose interest in them and call off any marriage with them in mind. But this is true! Yes,it could happen!

What if one sincerely tells her fiancee that she is no longer a virgin? Well,this is no doubt disappointing but the courage and sincerity will pay well .

The truth is that no man on hearing this would quickly call off marriage he has in mind with a lady that is not afraid to tell him the truth. This is evidence of trust! Trust keeps relationship healthy,trust keeps marriage alive!

Another truth is that even though you messed up,the fact that you sincerely told your fiancee the truth means you respect him. You've also proven that you are not proud of your action.

Having sex outside relationship is stupidity and badness. Sometimes,it is as a result of mistake or something one could not control at the moment.

Should I tell my fiancee I am no longer a virgin? Yes, tell him! Tell him and be free of guilty conscience. Tell him because you owe him an explanation and apology for not being faithful to him! If he loves you enough to marry you and have you as his woman,he would respect you as well and still go on with you! That is love! And the good book the Bible says that love covers multitude of sin! By telling your fiancee the truth,you are giving yourself the opportunity to see if he really loves you as he claims.

If he leaves you because you told him the truth,then he will still leave you tomorrow when you fail to impress him or do it right as he expects.

But you know what? The worse of it all is telling lies! If you tell your fiancee lies about yourself,he will find out immediately after your wedding with him. And the worst is that he will never believe you again for eternity as long as you continue to be his wife.

Trust is everything in marriage. If you want to enjoy the peace and joy that marriage brings,let bare your hands! 

My dear lady,allow your fiancee to take you just the way you are! If you allow him,he will love and cherish the woman he has without wishing he has someone else!!!

Always remember,whatever lies put together,truth will put asunder!!! 
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Wednesday, 4 July 2018

When He Loves You But His Parent Says No To Marriage,This Is What You Should Do!

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This happens everywhere. It happens in Africa,it also happens in America. It happens in royal homes,it also happens in common homes.

A man meets his heart desire and they fall in the arms of each other. Soon they begin dating and both are sure they are made for each other. The man proposes and his girl happily accepts and the relationship is moved to the next level,-Courtship.

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Before long,love have highly grown to the point that no opposer could quench it,and the feelings so strongly generated that the lovers could not be put part. So it seem. There comes the parent of the groom to be and so the trial begins!

What would you do when he loves you but his parent says no to your marriage? Would you ignore their disposition and have a secret marriage with your man? Would you accept advice to elope with him? What if he suggests that you both cohabit and begin having children,perhaps,that could weaken his parent,should you accept?

Let's take these points one by one and derive something.

One is about ignoring the parent of the man who loves you and wants to marry you! In other words,these are people who cause the birth of your lover and gave birth to him. Whether in live or in death,they are still his parent. Tell me,how could you ignore the most principal persons of the family you are getting married to? What power do you have to fight against these strong pillars and supporters of your family to be?

You may say that your family is you and your husband with your children,but in real cases,it is not always true. The parent of your husband to be is the extended family and they are the root on which any other family is founded!

Hey,if you ignore the pillar,it may fall on you some day. Never forget.your boyfriend is a man,and man by nature never despises his mother,or neglect his father's house . Tomorrow,he will go back to his father for reconciliation and they will take back their son. Then my dear lady may be hanging alone!

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How could you even think of eloping with your husband in the first place? Will running away change the situation for good?  You are only delaying the process of making it right for you by thinking of eloping with your husband to be.

Don't run away. After all,you are not yet married to him! Stay and fight it. If you can not win his parent,forget about it!

This marriage you feel you know is not heaven but it is full of tribulations! Whatever troubles that come with it could only be solved or made easy when it is founded on love,blessings and supports of both families.

And now he is suggesting that you both live together and begin to have children. As what? Husband and wife or what?

If he could not convince his parent that you are his choice,if he could not make his parent change their thoughts about you and accept you as their own,if he could not act as a man,why agree to live with him and begin to produce children for him?

Any man who cannot fight to protect your interest before his parent today will likely leave you tomorrow!

When he loves you but his parent says no to marriage,what should you do? This is what you should simply do:

Take your leave and forget the relationship! Yes,forget it because relationships that have troubles from the begins usually ends with tears at the end of the day. What are you even fighting for? You seem to have forgotten that marriage is not about only one person right?

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Always remember that marriage is about everyone in that family. Your husband,his parent and family. How many of them can you fight when troubles come? Whom will you run to for help? Remember again,it must come from that family that produces and gives birth to your now family!

My dear lady,love is sweet and so strong when you are with the right person. But when other factors around it,do not support you being together with your man,quietly leave!

He is not your soulmate until you both are tied together in marriage!!!


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Monday, 2 July 2018

When Love Becomes An Addiction - A Must Read!


Life is full of so many things that we can even find it very difficult to describe and the most confused one is this thing called love. There has been so many different definitions of love and yet none of these explanations best describes love. Going more deeper into it let's shift a bit to this section: How do you know you are in love with someone? This question has confused a lot of people and they tend to say things like: I always think about her; I can't stay without him; I could sacrifice all for her; and all of it. These reasons are genuine and are part of love but what if you are just addicted to this person and it's not necessarily about love?

There are reasons am going to list for you to be aware when your love for someone has become an addiction and no longer love. Before I however go on with this write up,I want you to know the meaning of addiction! It is the inability to stop doing or using something, especially something harmful. Note the word "harmful".

Read: 4 Most Important Reaons Why Marriages Don't Work These Days



WHEN LOVE BECOMES ADDICTION.

1. Abuse: When you are abused by your partner and you still stick to him or her then you are addicted to your partner, especially when your life is even in danger while being in such relationship.

2. Spending all your time with your partner: Don't be confused, we all are expected to spend a very good time with our partner no matter what. But when we abandon our own work and productive time to be with our partner then we are addicted to her. Loving someone doesn't mean loosing yourself.

3. Cheating: If your partner cheats on you and yet you can't let go then it might have turned to an addiction. Most times we think it's love but I bet you that whenever a particular action keeps reoccurring and you are hurt by that action and yet can't let go despite you both not being married to each other,then it can be an addiction.

Addiction is dangerous and it comes in so many ways that we may not even be aware of. You can seek a professional help if the above list affects you or talk to a friend about it. Don't suffer alone. If the situation is that both of you are still cool together then tell your partner about it especially if you are in point 2 category!!!
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Saturday, 30 June 2018

Top 50 Happy New Month SMS And Wishes

Top 50 Happy New Month SMS And Wishes

Happy New Month Wishes 1

No greeting cards to give, no sweet flowers to send, no bags of rice to forward but a loving and caring heart wishing you a happy new month. This month, you will succeed whee others suck seeds.

Happy New Month Wishes 2

My dear! This month, You will be too loaded to be stranded. You will experience smooth acceleration even in the midst of recession. You will overtake and take over all your possessions.

Happy New Month Wishes 3

Just keep saying AMEN; + Surprises +Elevation +Peace +Favour +Wealth +Success +Longlife +Joy +Promotion +Protection All & more shall be yours In Jesus Name Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 4

A new month came your way
Make it an amazing one,
it doesn’t matter if the weather is bad,
or you mood is not good at all
you just have to stand tall
and be happy.

Happy New Month Wishes 5

Always look forward towards your future. Fill your eyes and heart with motivation, Push yourself and boosts your capabilities to achieve what you want, May you will gain confidence and believe in what you do,
Wish you a happy Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 6

The beginning of month is a good time to take care of some business that was put in a drawer and set new targets. Wish you a very successful month full of great accomplishments!

Happy New Month Wishes 7

Today is another chance at life,
today is another chance at luck,
today is another day to live
like you’re gonna die tomorrow!

Happy New Month Wishes 8

As the sun shines and it is Visible for all to see so shall the Glory of God be in your Life always. Happy New Month …

Happy New Month Wishes 9

New month means refreshment and reboot. Wish you to leave old troubles alone and enter into a new month with fresh ideas and enthusiasm. Who is to make your life better, if not you? Happy new month!

Happy New Month Wishes 10

Just as the ocean is made of billions of drops, our life consists of minutes, hours, days and months. Sometimes every single thing is necessary. Don’t neglect your time and have an incredible month

Happy New Month Wishes 11

May your tomorrow be brighter, May this new month be more successful, I wish this month brings more inspiration and love in your life, Happy new month.

Happy New Month Wishes 12

Why can’t every month be like a little New Year? I think it’s a good idea. Congratulate you on this new month that will certainly bring you much fun and joy – just like holidays do. Happy new month!

Happy New Month Wishes 13

As the sun shines and it is Visible for all to see so shall the Glory of God be in your Life always..
Happy New Month..

Happy New Month Wishes 14

Life is become so busy that we are not aware of the fact that how fast time is passing. See this new month is starting and I wanted to wish you the best of luck at the beginning, because you are the only one I think every moment of my life and you always remain in my life. So I want you to stay in my mind just like previous month. I love you.
Happy New Month..

Happy New Month Wishes 15

If just one day is able to surprise us with some little pleasant things, then imagine how many incredible presents you’ll receive during the coming month! I’m sure you’ll be satisfied. Happy new month!

Happy New Month Wishes 16

Patience is the key to all doors of success,
Patience teaches us the art of hard work,
We should do this practice, so we can find the
real concept of success and happiness.
Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 17

Patience is the key to all doors of success, Patience teaches us the art of hard work, We should do this practice, so we can find the real concept of success and happiness. Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 18

It’s never too late to start running in the morning, to find new job, to fall in love – in other words, to change something in your life and open for new opportunities. This wonderful month is also a great chance for any endeavour. Happy new month!

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In busy life,
We dont have enough time to enjoy and spend time with each other.
At the start of this month, I wish and hope to spend some time with you.
Share all the good memories of our love affection.
Happy Lovely New Month.

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Forget the last and welcome new month with whole your heart. May you have sunny days and calm nights ahead. Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 21

New month – new experiences,
New day – new opportunities
make them count,
because you may not get another chance!

Happy New Month Wishes 22

Every Egyptian you saw in the past month, you will see no more For God shall Fight for you and you shall hold your peace, all your expectations from Jan 2 Date shall he fulfil In Jesus Name.
Happy New Month …

Happy New Month Wishes 23

Bless You A Very Happy New Month.
The New Month of happiness has arrived,
Get ready to gather all the treasure of blessings,
May we Praise Almighty God from dawn to dusk,
Help others by giving them smiles and happiness,
So everyone can enjoy the celebration of spring,
Wish You a Nice Month Ahead.

Happy New Month Wishes 24

Try to make your new month
as bright as moon
as gay as butterflies
as colorful as rainbow
as lovely as flowers
as happy as birds.
So enjoy your new month
at full extent.;)
happy New Month!

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The Destiny of sugarcane is to be cut at the time of its sweetness May you not be cut off at the time for u to flourish & Prosper You will Fulfill your destiny in Jesus Name Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 27

Wishing you fabulous new month,
a month with new experiences waiting for you.
Happy New Month…

Happy New Month Wishes 28

May all of your previous failures turn into success this month.
Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 29

I love to talk to you at this moment,
before the start of new month. Now i am sure,
my month will be very good. You are always lucky to me.
Happy New Month…

Happy New Month Wishes 30

May your tomorrow be brighter, May this new month be more successful, I wish this month brings more inspiration and love in your life, Happy new month

Happy New Month Wishes 31

Our God is a mighty God
He is the God of each year
God over weeks and God over year
This May, He will make everything work for you
He will surprise you and give you the best of Happiness
Happy New …

Happy New Month Wishes 32

Just Like the Eagle,
You’ll fly Like Gold,
You will be Valued Like the Sun,
You shall shine bright Like the river,
You shall flow unlimited Like the Palm Tree,
You shall Flourish and like Money, You shall be Useful
Happy New Month …

Happy New Month Wishes 33

Always welcome new day of the new month… As it boosts our capabilities and energies to achieve anything. It brings new hopes, new strength to buckle up for the better future.
Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 34

With let’s twist a fresh sheet
with the perfume of fresh rainwater.
Let’s overlook earlier period errors
making punishment for this month.
Transfer you these good wishes
to carry you trust and joyfulness
Happy New month!

Happy New Month Wishes 35

Always look forward towards your future. Fill your eyes and heart with motivation, Push yourself and boosts your capabilities to achieve what you want, May you will gain confidence and believe in what you do, Wish you a happy Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 36

Just Like the Eagle, You’ll fly Like Gold, You will be Valued Like the Sun, You shall shine bright Like the river, You shall flow unlimited Like the Palm Tree, You shall Flourish , You shall be Useful. Welcome to a new month.

Happy New Month Wishes 37

Forget about the days and night, ups and downs, good and bad of the previous month. Its time to launch your hope for the best. Wish you a best New Month ahead.

Happy New Month Wishes 38

Here is the wish for you for the new upcoming month May this month be the best and happy month for you. Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 39

In this new month , Your Joy will be complete ,Victory Songs will not cease from your Mouth and Each New Day will bring you closer to the Fullness of your Destiny.

Happy New Month Wishes 40

Hey Buddies this is the opening day of the new month And it preserve be a new create of your life as well. Take a lengthy breathing and begin Going advance towards your purpose.Best of good fortune. Happy New Month

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Pray to God on the start of the month so that He will help you in every matter of life throughout the month. Have a Nice New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 42

Forget the last and welcome new month with whole your heart. May you have sunny days and calm nights ahead. Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 43

New month, new challenges, new hopes, new goals…I hope you beat every challenge and achieve your goals this month successfully. Happy New Month.

Happy New Month Wishes 44

Always look forward towards your future. Fill your vision and mind with motivation, Project yourself and boost your capabilities to achieve what you want, May you will gain confidence and believe in what you do, Wish you a happy Month.

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Life is too short. Enjoy and have fun. Forgive your friends. Love by heart. Laugh out loud. Do everything that makes you smile. Enjoy New Month and Be Cool. Wish you a warm, Sweet and happy New Month. This month, make a plan to spend the quality time with your loved ones and with me too. Happy New Month.

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Pray for God’s direction on the start of the month so that He will help you in every aspect of your life throughout the month. Have a Nice New Month

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As the new month begins, Here are my wishes for you:
May this month keep you healthy, May you achieve all of your daily targets; May you remain happy and whole; May this month be better than all of the previous months of this year! Happy New Month to you

Happy New Month Wishes 48

Forget about the days and night, ups and downs, good and bad of the previous month. Its time to launch your hope for the best. Wish you a best New Month ahead.

Happy New Month Wishes 49

Happy new month wishes from us! May these days not go to waste, make every second count, and don’t let anyone make you negative or unhappy, because as they say “Happiness is the only thing worth fighting for in your life! Happy New Month my dear

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As the new month starts, Here are my wishes for you, May this month keeps you healthy, May you be achieving target every day, May you remain happy the whole, May you learn new things every day, May this month be better than all of the previous months of this year! Happy New Month.

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