Saturday, 21 January 2017

How to tell if my boy friend loves me


 How to tell if my boy friend loves me

Why is it that whenever love is mentioned, the boys or men,would always be in focus and whenever the issue of heartbreak is raised, all fingers would be pointing at the boys!
Here,the question: how do I know if my boyfriend  really loves me? is listed,pointing out that boys are really the issue in the relationship and should really be the ones to lead in love. Girls,is this just fair?
Okay,let's start off since the deed is already done! In a healthy relationship, both parties are involved to make it work. The boys,and the girls. My grandmother usually tells  me that a good relationship is one that  men love their women more,having committed and invested more ,than their women have. When I asked her "why"?she said " men, are the owners, and the givers,it takes real love for a man to choose a particular woman, marry her,and keep her in his home to live and build with him forever. You,what do you think about my grandmother's analysis on relationship?
How do I know or tell if my boyfriend really loves me?
You see,every sincere relationship has laughs and cries, joy and even sadness and pains often. If your boyfriend has never made you cry in your relationship, baby girl,start running. It is the first sign that he is in his very shadow of himself, not in his real self. Secondly, real girls like to show their characters, because they are proud of whom they really are. If you display some silly side of you,does he get mad at you? Argue with you? And tell you in your face that such silly things you say or do are unreasonable, and uncalled for? If he doesn't, my,baby,please, start looking for the door to exit! A man,who truly wants to spend the rest of his life with you would not pretend to you. In fact, one if his responsibilities is to make you a better person, and a better you in every way possible.
How does one,or how do I tell if my boyfriend really loves me? If I offend him or have a quarrel with him,should I keep begging him to forgive? Hmmm this is an aspect I enjoy talking about. Common, why on earth should you keep begging your boyfriend to forgive you because you both had some quarrel? Quarrelling is good and sweet in any serious relationship. Listen, when you both have issues, allow him to come to you first,to settle the trash! As your head to be,it is only in his office to take the initiative first! Then,you self,comply,and be romantic enough to move on with him. Begging, to the point of asking his close friends to plead on your behalf is totally out of it! It is not right, it is not wise!! Babes,if you take this step of begging at this stage of your relationship, what then will you do,when you finally make it to the final destination, his home? When a man really loves you,he won't make it so hard for you to please him.
In all things, follow your instinct if you want to tell whether your boyfriend really loves or not in every move he takes. Instinct never lies,but negligence of it becomes injurious abuse!!!