Saturday, 21 January 2017

Is long distance relationship healthy?

 Is long distance relationship healthy?

Is a long distance relationship healthy? Hmmm,this could be a very big world relationship question,but the answer lies in experiences! First of all, what is a long distance relationship? It is a relationship between two lovers,who are caught in two different world apart. It means that the two lovers or the two persons in relationship live in different places, such as towns,cities, in different countries, and even in far different continent. A long distance relationship on the other hand, does not permit the persons in relationship to see as often as possible, meeting one on one! In places where technology has not reached,persons in long distance relationship neither meet nor see each other, or communicate with each other often. In fact, the only time these persons see and talk one on one,is when one of them pays visit. This to many,sounds too strange, and impossible to be true,making them ask if long distance relationship is healthy at all!
Well, since no two persons in relationship are legally permitted to live in the same house, till marriage ,all premarital relationship could be said to be distance! If you are in any relationship, what makes your lover linger in your mind? Reflections! Yes,reflections of everything about him,and reflection of everything you've had with him. The sweet memories you shared with him is the only thing that keeps him alive in you,making him look as though he is always present with you! This is the only thing that builds love,and keeps it,until you both meet and connect again.
Hello,can I give the answer of if long distance relationship is healthy, using my own experience? I know you would be glad to hear it,see your mouth! Okay,you see,I met a young charming gentle man in my school uniform at the age of 13. I saw him and what I really love about him was his physique,his slim fit. He was then in his first year in University, while I was still in secondary school. We never lived in the same state but in far distance apart,and we never communicated until after one year,because i didn't have a telephone, when I went to our village on one festive period. What kept the handsome man,whose name I won't mention to you, was the last experience I had with him previously. The first time he saw me,I wouldn't t know what he saw in me that arrested his spirit, but surely it was love. Later,he invited me,and my sister to his house, and bought us some drink. As we were drinking,he sat next to me,paying more attention to me,making just me to laugh, and at some point, both of us would hold each other and fall in his bed. The story shall continue in our next love story. This sweet memories we shared lasted for as long as we both were in far distance apart. The truth is that,as long as one live in your heart,as long as you keep him cherished, long distance relationship doesn't matter at all. In fact, if you ask me again, I would say that there is no relationship that is as sweet as long distance relationship! The, longing to having another touch,and experience with him again, makes it so sweet and inviting!
Heh! What if the purpose of a relationship is not clear to both parties? It then becomes an injurious abuse!!!