Thursday, 26 January 2017

WHY YOU SHOULD MARRY A MAN WHO LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HIM

 WHY YOU SHOULD MARRY A MAN WHO LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HIM

Whether you are a lady or are still a girl,am sure you are already in a relationship,trying to finalize your thought,and make up your mind on your choice of marriage mate.

Why some people are of the opinion that it is better for women to marry men who love them more than the women do,others totally disagree. You what do you think? Are there reasons why you should marry a man who loves you than you do?

In many societies like Africa,men play the primary responsibility on marriage right than women. The only role women play in marriage right is to give their consent to their family,  after which the man who has proposed and have been accepted by the woman,moves on to perform the marriage right according to their tradition. The question now is, If your man does not love you so much than you do,will he be able to perform all of the functions required by your tradition before you are finally given to him in marriage?

I have watched a number of situations where a husband to be left his lady after performing the marriage introduction right for another lady.The question in everyone's lips was 'why'? And the answer in my  mouth was that this happened because,the man in question didn't love the lady enough to conclude the final marriage right,and take to his house, his beloved wife.

Again in the house,the man is the head of his family,and over 50% of the  house needs are catered by him. These needs include providing food and clothing for his wife,and taking care of her emotional welbeing. Again i ask you lady 'if a man does not really love you,will he do all of these for you? can't you see the reason why you should marry a man who loves you than you love him?

African tradition has given their men the right to marry more than one wife especially when he feels not satisfied with his wife. This is where intelligence comes to play,giving the reason why you,my beautiful lady should to marry a man who loves you more than you do. If you marry a man who loves you more than you love him,you can be sure that your place in his house and in his heart is kept safe!