Friday, 10 March 2017

other reasons why you can't find the right person in relationship-relationship advice,relationship and marriage,

Does finding the right person in relationship have anything to do with luck? For example,if one continues to fail in relationships,can we say he is unlucky,or unfortunate? No,we can't!  Part of the reasons why we say no was discussed in our previous article :''Why you can't find the right person in relationship''. Here,we have other reasons why you can't find the right person in relationship. Let's consider! Read more: should I tell my fiancee about my past?



Lack of confidence. One of the reasons why you can't find the right person in  relationship is  due to lack of confidence in yourself.  Yes,when you know your pocket is low with cash,and your heart is desiring for a sweet heart,what do you expect? Dropping so low,until she finally leaves,and later you begin to feel that you can't find the right person in relationship.  No my dear, you can,what just happened here was that you were not ready to have a serious relationship,and so,when you had one and the other and they failed,everything now looks like you can't find the right person in relationship.

Another reason why you can't find the right person in relationship is lack of  following the correct procedure. One of the right procedures in relationship is naming or defining your relationship. What does this relationship mean to you? Where will this relationship lead us to? Am I sure it is marriage? My dear,be sure of what you are into,what you want,and let your girl be aware of it as well. Even if you are  not yet ready for marriage because of lack of job or comfortable home,tell her,and let her know your fears. If she truly loves you and wants to be your wife,she will stay,she will wait,and she will even help you realize your aims more quickly.

If you are in a relationship and your lady does not know your intentions for her,one day,she will meet a serious man who will do everything right,engage her,and take her away from you.  Then you will start crying and feeling that you can't just find the right person in relationship. It is not true. you can,ooh yes,you have,but the truth is that you have lost her to a serious man who can do things right.

Finally,my dear gentle man,if you know you are not prepared for marriage,you are not buoyant yet,please do not go into any relationship.  If you do,you will end up messing yourself up,and messing the whole situation up as well. Luck has nothing to do with getting it right in a relationship,but applying wisdom and  and right procedures is the only way to getting things right in life!!!