Thursday, 9 March 2017

why you can't find the right person in relationships-relationship advice,relationship management,

A lot of ladies and gentlemen have asked this question : ''why can't I find the right person in my relationship?'' and we are not in anyway surprised. We are not surprised because,many of us here have had similar problems before knowing why,and that  is the reason,why this topic : ''why you can't find the right person in relationship'' is brought down for discussion .Read more: other reasons why you can't find the right person in relationship



To be sincere,men are more affected in this issue than women. The answer is not far fetched,I will tell you why. One of the reasons why men don't find the right persons in their relationship is because,their eyes are usually closed and blindfolded. Yes,why would a man see a woman and she becomes to attractive to him at first,only for him to say no after a while? What did you see in her before that you no longer see anymore?

Secondly,we have observed that a lot of young men seek advise from their friends to give their own observations on their choice. And of  course you know the next? Issues would start arising from all angles. Men,you are still growing! How could you see a lady you are so attracted to,and the only thing you could do is to seek the opinions of your friends about your choice instead of establishing your relationship with your lady? I give you an example:

There was a young man very close to me,who wanted  a woman for marriage. On seeing one fair,tall and elegant lady,his heart jumped in and he said : Yes,this is exactly the kind of lady I want for a wife.'' He rightly went to her,got her contact,and their relationship began very smoothly.  You won't believe me that this young man went as usual to seek the opinion of his friends! And yes,they gave him their analysis,she's too tall,others would say ''she's too fair'', aah,this one will be too fat by the time she balances ,can you carry her weight in case? and all of that. Before you know it,hatred and condemnation came in,and this young man lost his jewel. Tomorrow,you will see him come to us again and begin complaining: ''Why can't I find the right person in relationship?'' Read more: other reasons why you can't find the right person in relationship

Men,grow up and be wise! Why would you find a lovely girl,your heart yearns for,and you quickly abandon her because your friends show some dislike about her? Will any of those friends of yours share your woman soon after marriage with you? Are you getting the lady in question for them? Will they later live with you after your marriage? Why are the opinions of your friends in what should be your sole business be necessary?

The reason why you can't find the right person in relationships is because,you have refused to adopt the right procedures in relationship. What is supposed to be your business,you have shared with your so called friends. There are other more reasons why you can't find the right person in relationship. Please join us in our next article : ''Other reasons why you can't find the right persons in relationship''!!!