Wednesday, 30 August 2017

''If you ever cheat on your partner,don't hide it. Open up!'' ..


 On a seminar,empowering people for good


Well,they say that the strongest and the hardest thing to say is ''I am sorry''?  But I don't agree! Why is it  so hard to say I am sorry?  To your lover? Your partner for life? You offended him or her and you say that saying ''I am sorry'' is so hard do say?  That means you don't want to continue in your relationship with him. You surely want to barge out or lose him for someone else! ''If you ever cheat on your partner,don't hide it. Open up! See why...

What kind of cheating are we talking about here? Why should cheating on ones partner not be hidden? Why should it be opened? To whom?

Okay,while some people believe that one cannot always be with one partner for life,others simply disagree.''One man is for one woman,whether you believe it or not'' others imply. For people who believe that one cannot be with one partner for life,it then means that from time to time,such people will be found with strange faces in or outside a corner. If that is the case,it then means that cheating on such partners will always occur. Then it is to these ones that we can say ''If you ever cheat on your partner,don't hide it. Open up! Yes,open it because,it is already known even by your partner that you cheat! He knows that he or she is not the only person your meet ! ''Tell your partner that he or she is still the one you love no matter what''. Says an unknown adviser. He continues: Tell him or her the reason you cheated and maybe,he can help close the gap for you''.

If you ever cheat on your partner,don't hide. Open up! Open up to your close friends. You never can tell what help they can give! However,the good book the Bible says ''you should openly confess your sins to one another and forgive one another freely.''

Opening up to your partner when you cheat on him or her has advantages:

  •  It shows that you truly respect your partner and what you both share as one.

  • It shows that you still love him or her and want to always be.

  • Opening up to your partner shows that you don't feel good or proud that you have cheated.

  •  It shows you are sorry,and finally

  • It shows you need help to stop cheating,fighting hard to remain faithful afterward!

If you ever cheat on your partner,don't hide it. Open up! But if you feel you can't, at least,you should hold yourself,deaden your body against fornication or adultery,so you won't have any reason to open up !!!