Friday, 29 September 2017

It would surprise you how marriage expert Chris Attoh is. A divorcee,but he has a wonderful marriage advice for you



But why do people often not believe it when someone tells them : ''Well,I have never had had s*x for two years or for quite some time now,or if one says,I am still a virgin''? Is any of the above mentioned so impossible to do or keep?  A man would be with friends chatting about wives and concubines,s*x and
positions,and just when one of them mentions that he has never cheated on his wife,others would simply laugh at him,and say, he lies! Again is being faithful to ones' mate impossible to be?

A Ghanian actor, Chris Attoh whose 2-year-old marriage to actress, Damilola Adegbite crashed has revealed that he never cheated on his wife.  Am sure many of you wouldn't believe him. Then why did his marriage crash just within two years you may ask?

During a Podcast interview with Bola Ray on Starr Chat, a female listener who recently got married asked Chris who although is no longer in marriage for marriage advice. Below is what he says: 

''Marriage is a beautiful thing and more importantly, Marriage is serious business. It's a partnership, it's not a game of chess and if you look into your bible, you will find out that God said, a man who finds a wife finds a good thing. It also says that man is better off on his own but if you do find a wife, you find a good thing. So it's an addition, you are an addition to that destiny.''

Chris continues: ''I think that we have forgotten what the fundamentals of marriage comes down to. When you love someone, you should be able to forgive, respect, submit and these are the things that are important.''

Having known all these tips on  successful marriage,why did Chris lose his marriage? was there no love,respect and forgiveness? How could a marriage of intelligent creature so knowledgeable in rudiments of  successful marriage be lacking its elements?

''As a woman, you need to trust the captain of the ship. It’s truly important if you want peace in your home and I will always always resound this, it is amazing how many lessons you would find in your bible. If you're a Christian, trust me, it's your bible that will get you through your marriage days.'' And what happened to your Bible during your marriage with Damilola Adegbite? Or did you not have one then? Just realizing the importance now?

"No one is perfect and I'm not here to talk about my marriage". Christ says. When asked if he has any regret that his marriage has crashed so badly,this is what Christ says:

''I feel like life is too short for any regrets. everything that happens, happens for a reason. I have a beautiful baby boy, I have a wealth of experience and I have a lot of work to do. There are a lot of youths out there that needs to be guided''. Hmm,I don't understand this Chris. You,with all your ideas and knowledge of what to do to have a successful marriage still could not succeed,and you feel you can guide someone else? Anyways,it is still possible,yea,very possible.

But what could have made the marriage of Chris Attoh with Damilola Adegbite crash within just two years of saying ''yes I do''? Well another listener also called during the interview and told Chris that he cheated on his wife Damilola,making her to leave their marriage. In response to this allegation, Chris says in conclusion:

''I can gladly say that I never cheated because I didn't find a reason to. when you keep yourself busy as well, it helps.''   Wow! How interesting it is to see a divorcee give a wonder marriage advice for everyone!!!