Thursday, 1 March 2018

Tips On How To Make Up With Your Ex

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Are you surprised to hear that one can actually make up with his or her ex? You know. there is something you don't understand. The fact that once two lovers separate,the feelings does not always disappear. You think a thing of the heart easily dies? In fact,experiences show that the more one tries to kill feelings one has for his or her ex,the more the feelings generates and remains.

Most times,up to 99 times, when couples or people once in relationship see each other on occasion,outing or at any event,the mind doesn't leave without feelings. The heart beats and makes one lose control. At the event where former lovers see or meet each other,the eyes are always on search to see whom he or she has come out with or is hanging out with and the eyes would never seize to search until it finds positive or negative answer.

Now the big question: How does one,how can one make up with ones ex?

True experience has shown that for the fact that lovers have a clear separation or divorce doesn't mean the love is no longer there. There is a very wide possibility that the lying love in state can rise again stronger and better. So,how can one make up with his or her ex when the chance to make up comes?

Tips on how to make up with your ex

First,realize that there was once a problem you and your ex couldn't solve that led to your clear separation or divorce.  
What are those problems? Who was not willing to pay attention to the problems?
Be sure that those problems are brought back and discussed. Let all hearts be open and hide nothing from each other. Remember,you are trying to make up and any problem not solved or properly addressed will resurface some day,leading to another separation!

Again ask yourself: Am I really ready to forgive?Can I really put  the past in the past? If your answers to the questions are resounding yes,if the past or what your ex did that hurt you no longer hurts you,then it is true that you people can make up. Your heart is ready and willing to make up with your ex.

Again,it is advisable that when making up with your ex,take it slowly. Do not rush over anything including what goes on in the bed. He is your ex and you guys are still in the process of reconciliation. Wait until it is completely achieved!

Most importantly,be sure this time that those things your ex were not doing well that pushed you to break up with him or her is being corrected. Do not make up with your ex if his or her past irritating actions are still there!

Hey,there is no problem or disappointment free relationship in this managing world. Everyone in a relationship has had their bits of it and this is yours to face!

If your heart still beats for him,then accept to make room for making up with your ex when he calls for it!!!