Monday, 21 May 2018

The Secrets Of A Successful Marriage!


Marriage has been with us from the beginning of mankind, a union between a man and a woman. Taking place in different forms and cultures, it's one of the most beautiful things mankind has ever enjoyed. Nearly every adult passes through this stage in his/her lifetime. People go into marriages for different reasons.For some people it's the time to have kids. And for some others it's for pleasure of having endless sex with their partners while for yet another, it's because they are lonely and need a companion.

Whatever may be the reason for going into marriage we want to look at the secrets of having a successful marriage. It's a topic you must take note of because statistics have shown that marriages have been crashing more this modern times than ever before. Let's look at the secrets of a successful marriage.

1. Attention: Your partner requires your attention in your marital life. I use this point first because the lack of it has caused problems in different homes and has even led to divorce and end of marriages. Give your partner attention always and you will be surprised at the happiness that will fill your marriage.

2. Reduce arguments: I use ''reduce'' because there must be arguments between two people in marriage. No marriage is smooth but a little amount of argument makes the road sweeter and better. When there's too much argument in your marriage it leads to unhappiness and loss of interest in your partner.


3. Surprise your partner: Making the heart of your partner to be overwhelmed with joy sometimes improves the relationship between you and your spouse. So many people out there love surprises, these surprises could be gifts, surprise vacation (paid trip), a wonderful and beautiful romantic dinner.

4. Gratitude: Being grateful for little things and even the slightest efforts from your partner could do a lot in his or her love for you. Don't overlook this step as it sends some amazing shocks down the spine of your spouse.

5. Don't be jealous: Jealousy could destroy the trust you have built together. Ladies and gentlemen,learn to trust your partners and don't be suspicious of every move they make, believe me it makes people uncomfortable when they are treated as such!!!