Thursday, 24 August 2017

Ladies,see how friends can destroy your relationships

Photo: We girls are our own problems : Olivia Okibe

You sure remember the lady who called off her wedding by herself right? Her name is Olivia Okibe. When she came on her Instagram page saying she is calling off her wedding with a big boy who is financially doing well in Malaysia,everyone was wondering what exactly was wrong. However,because the lady in question,Miss Olivia couldn't say to us any reason thing in her more than one page writing,we concluded she was joking. Then later,her supposed to -be sister -in law also took to her Instagram page and says to Olivia : ''It was your bad character that made my brother to reject you''. Then again,Olivia then fiancee appeared in social media and gave apology to people saying something like  he was sorry,for giving what belongs to humans,to a dog.

Today being 25th day of August 2017,Olivia is here again sayin:

We girls are our own problems.

Remember when some girls I freely empowered few months ago turned out to gossip me, I made the post publicly.
Remember when I told you my close girlfriend gave me poison ; all because I started acting movies then taking pictures with some known faces and this girl thought I have made it in life.
Thus, she poisoned me but thank God I was saved.

Do you still remember when one of my old time best friends by name Ndidiamaka Okafor from same local government with me conspired with some dudes to blackmail me out of jealousy with a picture of me seated on a toilet with just bra and bum short  ?
When a ransom was demanded and I refused to pay a dime they uploaded it On Facebook with a completely nude picture of a girl I don't know and tagged us "lesbian partners". Smiles

The stuff trended for a short while and ended.
That one taught me never to keep a silly photo on my phone and never to give any access to my phone anyhow.
A lot of people gave me idea on how to deal with her , some said pour her acid , others said kill her because she is heartless , the other said let's organize n delete her details via her skul Ict so dat she ends up wasting her number years in school.
I smiled and said/did nothing because no one pushes me to do a thing except my spirit .
Vengeance is of the Lord and not human . 
Later I told her thank you girlfriend for the hurt let my God fight for me because He alone sees my heart and knows what and whom I am.
She apologized and I forgave her, out of shame of sighting me on social media she blocked me herself , I smiled and moved on . All in the other of my Fb account dat my ex messed with.

Again, remember how I helped a girl in my year 2 , paid for her school fees in Esut so she could join in writing exams.
She ended up not paying me till date dat I ve graduated rather she started beefing me. Smiles
Last year, a fiancĂ© of my best friend decided to cheat on my friend but unfortunately he didn't know my person , so he came and criticized my girlfriend before me  and asked me to start dating him so we can get married too
and I smiled and politely turned him down.
Yes , I owe my gal some loyalty thus
Because of my love for women which I passed unto my girlfriend I had to save her the pain by not letting her know what transpired between me and his He goat of a boyfriend then.
Because I don't want to be the reason for their breakup becos am not ready to serve as a replacement if it goes bad between them.
Funny enough , the same guy out of guilty conscience started blackmailing me before my girlfriend , telling her all sorts of shits and how I have been begging him to lay with me.
My girlfriend took it up immediately and started beefing me without asking any question , I felt bad , I was broken because a girl I had her back failed to understand my person.
She blatantly accused me becos she was in love and believed the dude over me, I smiled n moved , We didn't talk for months but later , I was justified .
God fought for me  and returned my friendship with her and now we are best of friends again , Yes she can die for me now because she understands better a person I am even when I have not spoken she knows the truth already.
This girlfriend is no other but Anyaragbu Chisom Linda , I love you dear and you know it .

Remember how I started small scale businesses for some young girls with terms but they ended up not meeting to conditions at all and still turned me an enemy , etc
I started a free Youth Empowerment , some still sidelined the "Youth" in quoteand replaced it with "Girls" alone , thus calling me a bitter young Feminist that all I do is about women.
Shebi na women go marry you (Quoting their exact words usage then )
To mention only but a Few

Majority of the pains and scandals I have passed through are caused to me by women.
Same women I love so much
Same women I fight for
Same women I can't hurt with words let alone otherwise
Same women I empower (not becos I ve too much but because I understand what it means to have nothing )
Same women , I want to tell my past ugly experience so they learn from me because I love them and wouldn't wish any of them to see what I saw because not all can survive it to tell the gist.
But the same women are the one more hateful
Envious and antagonizing over nothing.
Same women are the one judging even when their blood can't wash away a dime iniquity .
Same women are the one abusing and ranting on my space here on FB
Am strong because , what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger .
Above all the damage women has caused me in life , I will still Love and cherish women because they are awesome .
Yes, I am a woman and am proud to be one
I will never stop assisting women
And I will forever stand with women .

Father Lord , In my next world please create me a woman again and again .
Yes, I can't regret my gender for any reason.
Even though am closer to men in real life than women because I am afraid of women but still
I love women unapologetically .
Ladies beware! This is how friends can destroy your relation

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