Friday, 20 July 2018

Is It Okay To Marry Someone Younger Than I am?

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Is It Okay To Marry Someone Younger Than I am?

Well I hope you are not expecting me to tell you that this question is coming from women.A lot of people,virtually everywhere in the world accept that men should be older than their wives and when women get attracted to younger men,it becomes something unusual or abnormal. Is it okay to marry someone younger than I am?

If you are wondering if it is okay for a woman to marry someone younger than she is,I also want you to wonder as well if it okay for girls younger than 18 years to start giving birth to children or for women older than 45 years or in their 50's to begin having babies.

You see,there are many things we do not have control of in life. If a child marries before she is 18 years and is in her puberty age what stops her from getting pregnant and having children at that age? And if a woman is married but has not conceived until she is 45 years and above is it by her own making or choice? What is not normal or okay about the things of nature that come their own way and at their own time? Is it okay to marry someone younger than I am?

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My dear lady,since when has age become the major factor of successful marriage? All my life,from books and knowledge I have gathered,love and respect are the first major keys that keep marriage happy and successful.

What the creator and initiator of marriage gives as a rule and role for marriage is that husbands should love their wives as their own bodies and wives should have deep respect for their husbands.

If a woman marries a man younger than she is and does not look at him or even treat him as her younger brother but accords him deep respect in all ramifications,there will be no problems at all. The age difference will disappear and will never make any difference to them! Is it okay to marry someone younger than I am?

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And there is something stronger than everyone. Love! Love can shatter and pieces a lion's heart to nothing. Love can also make a weak heart break a rock that a strong hand may not be able to break. That is only when love is in action! Love covers multitude of sins!

Is it okay to marry someone younger than I am? This person is not serious! In fact she is not really in love otherwise,she won't be comparing love to age. If love has come to stay in her heart,if all she thinks and feels now is how to live and build home with her man,she wouldn't be asking if it is okay to marry a man younger than she is.

Please advice her not to. This is because,age is very paramount and very important to her than anything else!

Respecting a man who is younger than you are especially because he loves you as his own body is a gift and it is not everyone that has it! 

My dear, again I say to you:If you cannot respect your man because you are older than he is,if it is impossible you over look your age difference with him,don't accept his proposal. Yes,don't marry him because it is not okay or acceptable by you!

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And you can imagine! He even has the authority and right to propose to you! Can you even do that? You surely do not have the guts or right to do so even as you are older than he is!

Finally to you,age is a number. If you see a man attracted to you and your heart melts for him enough that you can surrender everything to him,it is very much okay to marry him even if he is much younger than you are!!!